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“ A great first meeting for me, liberating to loose our outdated inhibitions, and just let go.. Already looking forward to your next meeting.....Thanks Seb! Sam

I found a very welcoming, safe, and supportive space in which to learn some valuable techniques. A great group to be amongst.  Geoff E

"Awesome, warm, safe, good energy, looking forward for the next meeting, thanks Seb." Jack Lee

“ I wish it had been longer! Had a terrific time though. ” David S

“ the meets get better and better :) ” Rob -

“ Excellent and friendly bunch of guys who made the session really enjoyable. ” Douglas

“ My cock & body feel more connected today, thanks to the excellent touch of my masseurs, David & Geoff. A truly first class experience, you are great chaps. ” Paul D

"A great environment to learn and practice. Loved being natrually naked with other like-minded men in a non-judgemental and non-critical atmosphere. Hands on experience in every way - the only way to learn how to give in a more fulfilling way" Peter R

What a fab evening. Lots of Hands On and lots of energy! Truly Amazing! Good One Seb Jayck T

The most important advise I can give to any-one who wants to give an amazing lingam massage is that the secret is in your intention. Your intention should be to celebrate the man's beautiful lingam, and not to make him ejaculate. You should encourage him to breathe deeply through out the ritual, huge big deep breathe right down into his tummy, as you breathe in unison with him. Put one hand on his tummy to feel him breathe as you encourage him to accept pleasure, surrender, and allow stillness and patience. Now pour a good dollop of massage oil onto his lingam and balls. Rub your hands together and make sure they are lovely and warm. Begin the ritual by gently massage his legs as wide apart as is comfortable for him. Then very slowly bring the finger tips of one hand into his perineum area (between his arsehole and balls). Gently massage the area with deep circular motions, 81 time clockwise, and then 81 times anti-clockwise. Use your other hand to make excatly the same motions on his head(crown). Then very slowly and gradually bring both hand down towards his balls. Cup your fingers under the right testicle with your right hand and the left testicle under your left hand. Apply 81 circular motions with your thumbs on the upper side of the testicles first in one direction (clockwise) then reversed (anti clockwise). You can then continue applying 81 circular motions with your fingers to the underside of the testicles. Very very lightly tap his balls with your three middle fingers. Pay attention to the music you are playing in the background. Tap those lovely balls to the rhythm. Hold the balls from the base with your thumb and index finger and gently pull them forward slightly and hold and relax, you will notice that his pelvic muscles will involuntary pull them back, as this happens pull them gently forward again. You could repeat this for several minutes. Gradually bring one hand onto his lingam and gently hold it. Gently pump it 81 times, the purpose of this is to pump energy into the head of the lingam. Use the tips of your fingers of your other hand to gently massage the area between his eyebrows(third eye). Your now ready to take the ritual to another level. It's time for you to relax and be artistic. Everyman's lingam is different, so there is no infinite guide from here. Your purpose is to gently massage every tiny mm of the man's lingam in equal proportions. If you feel the man is coming close to ejaculation move back to massageing  his perineum area. The foloowing list of massage techniques have appeared on my old website, some written by me, but most submitted by the readers. I think they give a great insight into how men like to have their lingam massaged Seb Cox

THE cha(V) : Make a (v) shape with the fingers of yor your left hand. Now push down hard against his thickening lingam down to the base. Then lift your hands up and down. cunt-inue in this manner for a while, with constant gentle pulling of the skin around the balls with your right hand.

THE ANVIL STROKE : Bring one hand down, letting it stroke the lingam from the top all the way to the bottom. When it hits the bottom, release it. Meanwhile you're bringing your corresponding hand down to the top of the shaft, creating an alternating beating motion, hence the name "anvil stroke." Think of those blacksmith duos who keep up a double beat pounding motion as they beat that rod of iron on a piping-hot anvil. Ok, relax don't get carried away.

THE KNEADING LINGAM : Take the lingam in both hands, fingers lightly touching the sides of the shaft. In order to visualize the position, think of yourself kneading flower and butter together. Now flick the penis back and forth between your two hands by holding on to the loose skin of the shaft. Kneading it back and forth in this manner may not seem incredibly thrilling to him at first, but pretty soon, as it builds up momentum, it will drive him crazy.

THE BOOKENDS : Place both of your hands side by side against his shaft like a pair of bookends. Now push gently against his beuatifully fattening lingam. Then lift your hands up and down. Continue in this manner for a while.

THE BASE CLUTCH : Tighten your thumb and forefinger around the base of the shaft, pressing down on the balls. This will cut off the blood (acting as an impromptu cock ring) and help you steady the shaft in your hand. If the skin on it is slick and immutable, you can stroke the lingam with more friction, thereby enhancing the excruciating experience.

THE PUBIC TUG : As you are stroking him, lightly pull on individual pubic hairs on his testicles. Don't pull so hard that you remove them, but tease them.

THE TICKLE : Tickle his balls with one hand while you tickle his lingam with the other

THE PERPETUAL PENETRATION : Grabbing the lingam at the top, let his fattening lingam 'penetrate' into your fist on each stroke. Before the head of his fattening lingam pops out of your hand, bring the other hand up for the next tantrick penetration. This way it seems to him like he is penetrating deeper and deeper into an infinite cunt-inue. Make sure you keep the penetration continuous for tantric results. Try faster or slower to taste.

THE PALM SWIRL: Use your open palm to swirl around the head, the way your tongue would lick an ice cream cone. This sensitizes the head, and will make it get larger and turn (even more) red. Try reversing direction for a surprise.

CLOCK COCK : As in "The Palm Swirl", use your open palm on his glans, but stop at each "hour of the clock", and make circular motions with your open palm. This will make this part of the head EXTREMELY sensitive, so move to the next hour after a few circles. Pay particular attention to 5 and 11 o clock.

THE RING : Make a ring with your thumb and forefinger, and pump up and down with this ring. When you get to the top, close the ring, then make him squeeze his way in as you slide back down to the bottom, use your hand hand to massage his a nal lips

THE GREASY KNOB : Put alot of lube on the head of his lingam, and try to open a tantric door knob coated with grease. Now try turning the other way. Repeat.

THE SHAFT : Stroke only his shaft, ignoring the head. You will notice it fattening. When it's rock hard, use the GREASY KNOB, or the Perpetual Penetration

THE EXPLORER : The shaft of a man’s lingam cunt-inues down past the balls toward the anus. You’ll feel the unmistakable hardness if you press between his scrotum and anus. Try rubbing that hidden base to really turn him on. You’ll be stimulating his prostate at the same time.

THE BELLY RUB : Bring his erect lingam so that it rests on his belly. Put lots of lube on your hand. Rub his lingam gently into his stomach, up and down going away from his balls and then sideways with your little finger running along your balls. Squeeze the head of his lingam

THE RING THE KNOB : i use 2 fingers ,the thumb and forefinger to ring the knob without lube and with the second hand i stretch my balls down urkane

THE HANK: I use my left hand and lube, start with your hand underneath the bell and full grip then drag your hand over it so your pinky is now touching your bell bottom and your thumb pointing towarda your balls, reverse and cunt-inue till u cum it's so nice hank

THE PALM OF YOUR HAND STROKE : lube ur hand up and rub ur balls all over. then using the palm of your hand stroke the back side of your shaft from ur balls to your bell. then go over and run down the top side of ur shaft. carry pm until you get a HUGE orgasm! yum wanka

THE SO BIG : Bring your right (well-lubricated hand) down over your fatening cock.then use the other hand to caress and lightly annoy your balls. Tighten around the base of your cock. If both hands fit along the length of the shaft, move then together, up and down, in the typical pumping motion.  Hold the shaft really tight, push your fingers in deep circular motions deeply into your cock. If you've got a really fat cock...

4 the well-foreskinned : You get yourself nice and erect then with one hand around the shaft raise the skin forward over the knobend to cover it. Push a well-lubed index finger down the foreskin and rub the helmet. The best area is the frenulum at the underside of the glans and the best stimulation is from a rapid jabbing up and down of the finger and you can swipe the finger round the ridge of the helmet now and then. It's quite novel Amar

THE BACK TO FRONT : Try wanking but sort of back to front so ur thumb is furthest away from your body! that is niiiiccceee?! LJT

THUMB THE CENTRAL VEIN : Holding your hard cock place your two thumbs on your central vein of your beautiful members! This will play with the blood in the penis. It is a good wank. Also play with your crown of the glans, bottom of bell, it feels amazing! Such a shame you run out of hand! I love guys! Viva la cock! Nick

The Nice N' Easy : turn ur hand backwards so the back of ur hand is facing up with ur nuckles line up parallel to ur cock. curl ur fingers & thumb around ur cock and slide each finger of the end one by one. then stroke back to the original position & repeat. Its a lot slower than other techniques, but a lot more intense.

CIRCULAR HEAD RUB : As you hold your extremley hard and throbing cock in one hand, take your other hand and gentley rub the head in a circular motion with your other hand. I am doing it now and i am just about to blow ...... Oh yeah, holy fuck that feels so good! Mat

THE 50 PENCE : Make a 50 pence shape with your thumb and forefinger, and pump up and down with this ring. When you get to the top, close the ring, gradually stretch your cockhead around to your arsehole. Make him squeeze his way in as you slide back down to the bottom.

THE "SWEET SPOT" : i like to slowly build and then stop time and time again until finally i cant take it anymore and shoot my cum all over myself. just relax. i usually take my cock between just my thumb and middle and index finger. place the thumb on top and the other two underneath on the "sweet spot" and rub deeply in a circular motion. it always gets me off! raging hadon

THE BIG JAFFA : like to take a big Jaffa orange or a grapefruit and , with the skin left on , remove the middle core with a narrow bore core remover. Remove enough of the fruit skin round the core hole as is necessary to fit the knob of your hard cock in. Penetrate and screw the fruit Jp

THE JACOB : While wanking as usual, I like to use both of my hands one on top of the other so that my whole dick is getting attention and then as im about to cum i stop and then, using the palm of my hand, massage the head of my dick until its unbearable and i wank fast and cum all over the place Jacob McManus

THE HEAD SQUEEZE : try holding the head of your cock with your right hand, the bottom of the bell should rest on your pointer or middle finger, while the thumb is resting across the top of the cock head. squeeze and jerk in a circular motion, it feels mad good!!! matt

THE HAND OVER HAND : Hand over hand Wanking techniques is great. Just take you left hand and stroke down from your head to your balls. Then take your right and repeat. Alternate left and right strokes in a downward motion. This is an easy Wanking technique that can make you shoot a lot further WankingIt

DOUBLE SQUEEZE : Bring both well-lubricated hands down on his shaft. Some cocks are so big they require both hands. If your partner's doesn't, then use the other hand to caress and lightly annoy his balls, or tighten around the base of his shaft. If both hands fit along the length of the shaft, move then together, up and down, in the typical pumping motion.  Hold the shaft really tight, push your fingers in deep circular motions deeply into his cock. If your partners shaft is so big it need more than two hands give me a call, PLEASE..

STAND UP AND HOLD YOUR COCK : Use both hands, and start thrusting the throbbing hot cock into them without moving the hands. Do this until orgasm, squeezing the cock a little bit. The pleasure feels like your fucking somebody, and it feels really amazing.

STIRRING THE CUP OF TEA : Can only be done uncut. Shift the skin of your cock upward so there's a good amount of it above your knob end, almost like the neck of a balloon. Either with lube or pre-cum, put one finger into the mass of skin and wind it round and round the bell. Can be done solo or by someone else for you. Takes ages. A release of watery cum or piss helps boost the liquid around your knob end now and again. As your finger winds round and round you'll feel one particular part of your glans or bell giving you immense pleasure. Find it Moist

THE WHERE THE FUCK IS IT? : Place one hand between his legs, literally, and the other gently on his stomach. Very slowly slide your hands towards each other without touching his cock AND repeat SEVERAL TIMES

The COCK A DOODLE : Make an o shape with your thumb and index finger, pull his lingam head through. Tighten the o so that it becomes more like an e. Gradually pull the rest of his lingam through. Holding the e shape very tightly Doodle his lingam from left to right. Gently flap it about. Alternate between O and E

EACH DOWNWARD STROKE : I love to masturbate lying on my back with my balls resting on my thighs. With my thumb and forefingers encircling my penis I run my hand up and down the shaft. My trailing little finger strokes my balls with each downward stroke. Meanwhile the thumb and forefinger of my left hand tweaks my erect nipples to add another delicious sensation to those in my penis. Sometimes, I swap hands. Because I don?t masturbate very often with my left hand, when I do so it feels as if another man is playing with my penis which arouses me even Sandy

The SOFT COCK FLOP : flop his ligam out as its already getting semi hard in your hands wrap a fist around its girth and squeeze tighter and pull his foreskin right back on itself so it smoothes out down the rest of the shaft and hold tight and then roll it back up over the head and pinch closed with your fingertips and repeat Ken

The Some Intense Sutff : Get his lingam fully erect, then pull his forskin down as far as you can without it hurting, then make an O with your fore-finger and thumb and place it over his retracted foreskin to stop it going up and down to cover the glands. Then massage in normal manner. Wank4Eva

THE JAPANESE BUTTERFLY : You can start, but it is impossible to finish it yourself, it is soooo INTENSE. It needs to be done by a friend (OR GOOD MASSEUR) with a lot of patience and goodwill, because it can take a LONG TIME 'til you cum. You MUST use a lubricant. It is done with BOTH HANDS, hand over hand, always in ONE DIRECTION ONLY, with a strong, steady and regular beat. If UNCUT: It must be done downwards, towards the body. If CUT: it can be done either towards or away from the body, but near the end most people prefer the downward stroke. You will shake and writhe before you shoot. Everybody shoots a HUGE LOAD Dave

THE CHICKEN WING Tecnique : SHAPE YOUR ARM INTO A CHICKEN WING PUT  HIS MOISTY KNOB BETWEENN YOUR FORARM AND BICEP CLOSE TIGHTLY AND FLAP YOUR ARM LIKE A CHICKEN THEN WEN HE IS ABOUT TO SPOOF  PULL AWAY Nathan

THE SUPER SLOW : When I am hardest, I like to take a finger and my thumb at the base of my penis and bring them to the tip to get the first few drops of precum. After that the precum flows nicely. I love to play with my precum. When there is plenty, I rub my urethra very gently. I tense up like I'm gonna cum, but I can't. I do this over and over and play witht he precum. Eventually I just get tired of waiting for the orgasm and adjust my stroke til I cum. But I never go fast like so many guys. I never understand why guys move their hands up and down so fast. I've tried it and I have no feeling left. Slow lets me feel everything. I can concentrate on the strong feelings. I can think about my toes curling. I feel the muscles tighten in my groin. I can actually feel the cum starting to move through my body before I have that cross-over feeling and point of no return Slow Lover

THE NICE AND HARD : LEt's say you're masturbating or you're with someone and you're knockin' boots, work you're cock liek you normally would. Get it all nice a hard. Just as you're about to come to orgasm, press your fingers in that little area between your scrotum and you're anus. Now you have to press HARD. The area I'm talking about is this fleshy muscly part under the scrotum. It's actually right before the anus. What this does is block the seminal bladder so you get this build up of spunk your body wants to ejacualte. This swells up against the prostate and it feels fucking amazing. the orgasm starts as normal but keeps building and building and building. Make sure you push up into the pelvis, not forward that feels weird. Try it next time you're in the shower. Let me know if it works for you! M(canada

POLISHING NOB : while i am wanking, if i flex my inner thighs and focus on me arse, while thinking about taking a nice guy, some times my whole body lets rip, like great fits of the body... an may shoot meself in the face LOL this happens less, when thinking of a nice hairyarsed guy and polishing me juicy nob a little, but can be just as poweful an enjoyable Bushman

THE CHIN RUB : Get your cock erect and lube it up. Take your hand and with an open palm, rub the bottom side of the head of the penis. Best when you start slow and then speed up toward the end. If uncut, pull the skin back with the other hand and hold it back will rubbing Chin Rub

Hello Seb, can you give me some idea of how one of the workshops runs and with the kind of massage going on is it during the meetups, is it bad form to ejaculate? B

hello, The best way to find out what happens at a session is to come along. Basically there is a demonstration at the begining of the workshop, and then there is an opportunity to practise and recieve a massage. This session is not about ejaculation, but if you do at the end of the session thats fine. Hope you can come, seb 

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